Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Christmas 2010 - AZ style

If anyone knows me...or my father-in-law...we take a lot of pictures. So I made a slideshow to help show what a great Christmas we had.



We spent Christmas this year with the entire Urbancic side of the family. Unfortunately Dan's dad had just undergone a pretty big surgery and wasn't able to travel anywhere and we all decided it was time to get together and spend our Christmas together in AZ. Steve and Amy (who had just moved to ID)were very excited to get out of the snow and come back to some warmer weather. It was wonderful to all be together and enjoy the family (as big and loud as we are getting!) There were 10 adults, 4 kids, 3 dogs, and two babies in bellies! It was quite a bunch.

We enjoyed our traditional (but less tradition this year) Christmas eve dinner and reading of the Christmas story. Things just don't seem quite as spiritual when you have three little boys running through Luke 2. We also enjoyed Christmas morning which seemed to go by in a flash...no longer did we do things in an orderly fashion. It all sort of went by in a blink of an eye and you opened something when it came your way.

I say all of this jokingly... Christmas is so much more enjoyable with the laughter and sounds of children in the house. There may be occasional arguments over certain toys and we might not all get along all of the time but the memories that are being made and the times that we spend together and starting to become very and far between and we cherish the times that we do have. We are so thankful that we were able to spend Christmas as a whole group and we love each other so much. It was a great time and the adults loved the evenings and naps when the kids were quiet and we could catch up on life too. Thanks mom and dad for hosting us all and letting us come and run through your house. We enjoyed it so much. Merry Christmas.

Friday, December 17, 2010

Bye-Bye Fro

We agreed the time had come to cut off some of those curls... Now everyone LOVES Blake's curls and can't seem to get enough of them but come on... look at this picture! The kid has a fro! It was definitely time. So this is the BEFORE shot.....


Here he is being such a good boy and sitting so nice for Jenny. Again we weren't sure what to expect from him but he was awesome and just sat there and let her do her thing.



Here he is... looking all grown-up with a little boy hair cut! It was amazing to see the actual amount of hair that Jenny cut off. There was hair all over the floor...crazy. The kid really did need the hair cut. He wanted to finish it off himself and comb his own hair (something he does daily with mommy's brush)

It was sad to see his curls go... but we are sure they will be back soon.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

A day at Disney

We decided that since my dad has "connections" at Disneyland and we love Disneyland at Christmastime it would be fun to go for Blake's 1st birthday and my 30th. It was me, Dan, Blake and Auntie Laura. We weren't sure what to expect but Blake did a great job. He had a lot of fun, even though he wasn't quite sure what was going on.




We were able to get on a bunch of rides... Dumbo, the carousel, Alice in Wonderland, and a bunch of the rides at California Adventure. Since we were there on a Monday the lines weren't really too bad (for Disneyland) and California Adventure was nearly empty! The weather was great too. Blake started with a long-sleeve T-shirt and pants on but very quickly ended up in a brand new Disney T-shirt because it was warm.


We were even able to see some of the characters and Blake did okay. He loves stuffed animals so at this age I figure he still thinks they are big teddy bears and isn't too scared - YET!

We had a great day and it made our drive home nice and quiet because Blake was so exhausted from all the excitement that he slept the entire way!!! We hope to be able to take him back again soon. I grew up at Disneyland practically and have many good memories there and hope to be able to take Blake as often as we can... while we still have such great "connections"!

Monday, December 13, 2010

CA Christmas





For the past 9 years we have always gone to California and done a "California Christmas" party with our friends and family who are still there. This year we decided to keep it small and just had a small group of us get together for some dinner, presents and then we headed to see Santa! We found out about a great park out in Irvine and does a wonderful display and puts on a Christmas train that takes you to "the North Pole" to see Santa. It was a lot of fun and the kids really enjoyed it (I think all of the adults did too).

It is always so nice to go and visit our friends and family in California and enjoy the holidays with them. It was really nice this year and do something just for the kids and have Blake with us and have him be able to get in on the activities. I think next year he will REALLY enjoy Christmas (oh no!)

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Christmas Card Photo Shoot

I decided I wanted a break this year and was not going to do handmade cards for Christmas...plus we had this cute little boy that we could show off...so we headed out to get some pictures done that we could put on a card. Deciding that was the easy part... having an active 1-year-old participate in the photos...not so easy.

Our good friend Jenny was great and worked well with Blake...even when we picked one of the coldest days yet to go out and get the pictures done. But we were quickly running out of time and really had no choice.

We think we got a ton of great shots and love how the card turned out... hope those who got one did too!!! Merry Christmas!

Monday, November 29, 2010

Happy Turkey Day

Grandpa Mike and Grandma Holly from Arizona decided to come and join us for Thanksgiving this year. It is so nice to have visitors and extra nice not to have to travel for the holidays!! We love to spend time with family, especially the ones we don't get to see as often.

It was kinda cold so we made sure to bundle up whenever we went out and about.

We went shopping (gotta catch some of those Black Friday deals), the boys went to the movies while the girls did the cooking on Thanksgiving, we made sure to visit the conservatory at the Bellagio to see the beautiful flowers and we also made a trip to the Ethel M Chocolate Factory to see all of the lights.


We had a great visit but most importantly we were reminded of all the blessings that we have and all of the things that we really are thankful for. We have such a great family, and amazing friends. We are thankful for the Gospel that is in our lives. We are thankful for the health that we experience and the jobs and home that we are blessed to have.

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Birthday Boy


The Birthday Boy....



The theme of the party was "B"...we had B everything... Balloons, Bundt cakes, and a "B" buffett complete with bugles, Baby Ruth, brownie bites, bubble gum, blow pops....

These are the "birthday bundt cakes"...instead of cupcakes. This was a great idea at the start until I was at home (with the help of Auntie Laura) making all of these on Friday...


Present time!!


Blake's yummy cake made by our great friend Sue.


Our way of saying thanks to all those who came to the "bash"... Bubbles from Blake


We had a great day and most importantly it was a way to spend time with family and friends and really just think about the past year. WOW! We can't believe that a year has come and gone already. A year ago we honestly didn't know when we were ever going to get that call....and then we heard that a little one had been born and they wanted to hurry and get that baby connected with LDS Family Services... Well thank goodness they did because four days later that little baby was in our arms. The amazing miracle of adoption. And then a year later he is a walking, mumbling, ball of energy and we could not be more excited and happy to have him as our ONE YEAR OLD!

One year stats:
walking since 10 months
says - mama, dada, ball, nite-nite, bye-bye, barks (for doggie), blows kisses, waves goodbye
27.5 lbs, 31 in
pacifier only for naps and bedtime

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Trick or Treat....


The whole country family... Farmer...cowgirl...and cow!!


The cutest cow you've ever seen....MOOOO!


The cow in his barn!


He didn't quite get the whole trick or treat thing but he did catch on that things were being placed in his bucket and he watched to see what was happening with that whole concept.... I am sure he was just wondering what in the world is this all about and what is going on???


The farmer and his very tired cow after a looong night!!!

Happy Halloween to everyone and we can't wait to start planning for next year already.... Oh wait I guess we need to get through a certain little man's first birthday that happens next Saturday!!!!

Monday, October 25, 2010

Our little pumpkin





On Saturday afternoon we decided to head to the pumpkin patch for just a little bit. It was fun and Blake liked the pumpkins. He was actually in shock for a bit. He was just wondering around looking at all of the bright orange pumpkins and probably just wondering what the heck they were.

Then he got a little more adventurous and he should have stopped while he was ahead. He decided that he wanted to choose a pumpkin... and if you know Blake he doesn't choose the tiny ones that are in his hands and that are easy to pick up... NO! He decides to go for the big ones that are a challenge. Well... this one was sort of a draw. Blake won because he was able to pick the pumpkin up... but the pumpkin won because on the way to the ground the stem got Blake right under the eye and left him with a nice little reminder that he should pick on someone his own size!

Needless to say our journey at the pumpkin patch ended a little sooner than expected...

(Of course Blake cried for a minute or so but that was all... we really do have a tough little man on our hands!!)

Monday, October 18, 2010

"Time Out"...for Family


The boys putting Grandma Holly to work

Steve pushing the firetruck all around the backyard..


Preston and Blake playing on Grandma and Grandpa's fun outdoor toys together

This past weekend we went to AZ to spend some time with family and for the girls to have a little...TIME OUT!

The girls were able to attend a church event called "Time Out For Women" with speakers, musical guests, shopping, food... it was great. None of us had ever been and we all had such a great time we already have it on the schedule for next year. I really enjoyed it and can't wait for next year. I enjoyed the time with the girls, the time to actually listen to the speakers (it gets harder and harder with Blake running around) and the chance to just enjoy some time away from everyday life!!!

The boys were great and they agreed to watch the kiddos while us girls were away. The did more "manly" stuff like fix windows, mow the lawn, etc. I think they liked that better! They had a chance to get away on Saturday night for a movie though...it wasn't all hard work!

Again...it was a great weekend with a little girl time, a little boy time and a lot of family time which was perfect.

Monday, October 11, 2010

An early B-day gift




Daddy and Blake spent Saturday afternoon building Blake's new fort! The weather has turned and it is now nice enough to spend some time outside and Blake definitely wants to do that. Right now all he does is push around our furniture so we decided he needed something a little more fun to do than that.

We headed to Toys R Us and picked up his birthday present a little early so he could enjoy it for as long as possible...because we all know that soon enough it will be too cold to go outside and play (we are never happy here in the desert!)

He seems to love it and we are surprise (well not really) at how quickly he has learned to climb UP the slide and also how to maneuver the climbing wall... That's our BOY!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

A call for help

A fellow adoption mom is putting out the call for help and while I am going to answer it... I am passing the call along to any and all who are still reading my blog and asking for you help too!


"Have you ever wondered how it would feel as a parent to be unable to provide the necessities for your children? What if you didn't know the next time you or your child would be able to bathe with soap? What if your children had to wear worn out, too small clothes to school because you didn't have the money for new ones? What if one small simple toy on Christmas morning would mean the world to your child but you just couldn't afford it?

I know we may not think about it much but there are so many families out there struggling with these very issues, especially now in this economy. This holiday season, I would like to ask you to help me make a difference in the life of a child.

My Aunt is the vice president for PJ's Forgotten Children, an organization in Salt Lake that does Christmas for children whose families are affected by mental illness in some way and are really struggling. Many are in homeless shelters.

"P.J.’s was established as an independent, nonprofit organization in memory of Patrick John Smith, who died while suffering a severe mental illness.
The term “forgotten” refers to those children who are often overlooked because many of their parents are suffering mental illness as well, and are less likely to seek traditional means of help for themselves and their families."

PJ's is a wonderful organization, 100% volunteer and non-profit. The families that receive help from PJ's each year are all submitted to them by mental heath professionals so we know they legitimately need help! I am teaming up with my friend Christine from We are all Mothers to ask for donations for PJ's Forgotten Children. She is participating in honor of her baby son Conner that she lost almost 8 years ago.

I was able to volunteer at PJ's last year putting Christmas bags together for the kids. Each child has a paper that states the child's needs and what kind of toys they like. I was so humbled as I read the request of these sweet children. "my own socks", "a coloring book", "a stuffed animal", "shampoo", "a warm coat" ... They have so little, and we all have so much.

The organization receives donations throughout the year but the number of children they are helping keeps growing (they provided Christmas for well over 1,000 kids last year) they need more help!

I have talked to my aunt and these are the things they are really in need of this year...
*Shampoo/Conditioner
*Deodorant
*Warm Gloves/Warm Coats, all sizes
*Warm Clothing for Boys & Girls 1 year to 18 years, any size
*Socks/Underwear/Warm Sleepwear
*TOYS: Baby Dolls, Barbies, Lego's, Lincoln Logs, Transformer, Bakugan, Littlest Pet Shop, Stuffed Animals
*Games for all ages
*Teen Books for Boys & Girls
*Art Supplies
*Ball (Sports of all kinds)
Of course monetary donations are accepted as well.

They ask that items be new or new condition, they don't need to be in the box or have tags as long as they are in like new shape.

If you want to donate and live in Las Vegas, please drop your item/s off at my house so you don't have to pay for shipping.
1834 Capilano Lane
North Las Vegas Nv 89031

If you live in Logandale you can drop your item/s off at my inlaws (assuming everyone knows where they live since it's Logandale)

If you live anywhere else please mail the donated items directly to my aunt.
Jo Caldwell
7817 LaBarranca Ct.
Cottonwood Heights UT
84121

We ask that all donations be delivered/mailed by November 3rd so the volunteers at PJ's will have plenty of time to get all the children's bags together.

Please email me if you have any questions meka.duane@gmail.com. Thanks for your help!"

And remember: A hundred years from now, it will not matter what your bank account was, the sort of house you lived in, or the kind of car you drove...but the world may be different because you were important in the life of a child!

Sunday, September 26, 2010

End of summer


Although I am sure we have a few more HOT days left before summer is "officially" over... we don't have many more weekends left open that we can take the time to head out to the lake so we took the time this weekend to get out there one last time. Plus...Auntie Laura was in town so we thought it might be a fun activity for the weekend.

Blake had a great time because he is now walking and really able to enjoy the water on his own and he sure did.

Can't wait until next year when he will start swim lessons and really get a feel for the water and what swimming is really all about!

Monday, September 20, 2010

Weekend with Friends

My dad was heading to CA so Blake and I decided to tag along and we spent the weekend with an old friend of mine and her new (adorable) little baby girl Madison. It was nice to just sit and talk and watch the little ones try to play together. Maddie is only 4 months old and Blake being nearly 11 is just a little too big but he sure wanted to see what she was doing and make sure she was alright... too cute!

It was a great weekend and we hope they will come and visit us sometime soon.

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

For time and all eternity








Here are a few shots from the day at the temple.... What an experience! Words are really just too hard to find to express the feelings and emotions that were felt that day. After years of waiting for a little one to join our family.. then having to wait the months to finally know that he is truly ours FOREVER it was amazing. It was also so great to have all of our friends and family with us to show their love and support. We have had such amazing people with us through this journey and are so thankful for that.

Families are forever and we now have one of our own.